Saturday, August 21, 2010

Couples ....?

Just a question, If I asked you when were you 100% sure that you're better half would be your future spouse?


What would you say ?


I asked my fiance and he said hmm I dont know ?


How can you not know if you propsed, what a dummy I'm with ..Couples ....?
Give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe he misunderstood the question. How many people do you know would ask someone to marry them if they were not sure? It is a HUGE step for guys to ask a girl to marry them.Don't create something in your mind that is not there, obviously he loves you. Enjoy what you guys have!Couples ....?
do you think a light switch gets thrown and all of a sudden you go from not being the one to being the one? I think its a slow thing that is developed from mutual trust and caring until one day it seems that this person is the right one, but you realize that its been that way for a while.





yeah what a dummy he is for marrying someone who thinks this way of him and displays such a lack of respect for him.
I looked in his eyes one night while lying in bed after we had come home from vacation, and realized that for the last 5 years (this was a few years ago) he had been by my side for everything. even though we fight, we make up. we're stupid together, we laugh together, he'll take care of me and I'll take care of him. I just knew.
My husband and I just ';knew'; after our first date - and strangely, it was a blind date, too. I came home and told my Mom, ';I've got no negatives on this guy. I think he could be the one.';





A month later he invited me to go engagement ring shopping wtih him, 3 months after that he proposed.





We've been married now over 3 years. When it's right, you just know.
I knew that I wanted to marry him after a couple of months of dating. I knew 100% that he WOULD be my spouse when we went through with the wedding a year and a half later.
We dated for about 6 months and got to know each other on all levels. When we discovered we were compatible in many important areas, we became exclusive and dated for another 6 months. It takes time.

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